18 Ways To Make Your Life Easier In 2020
Thursday, January 2, 2020
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Do not wait for the problems to be solved by themselves. Here
are some tips for becoming happier and less tired in the coming year.
1. Go on a low-information diet
If your work is not connected with the redirection of information
flows, it is not necessary to be aware of all world news and events. For a
modern person, information falls every minute in the form of newsletters,
messages on social networks, push notifications. In most cases, you can’t
help someone else’s grief with anything, just get angry or sympathize, and
these negative emotions take away strength and reduce productivity.
Identify the sources that will deliver the news to you, and limit
the time you spend on them. The less you know the better you
sleep. And longer if you go to bed instead of reading the tape on social
networks.
2. Throw away all the trash
Old, ugly, unnecessary things make the room sloppy, and the mess
formed around them spoils the mood. Eliminate the source of the problem, fill the house only with the
necessary or pleasant things.
3. Analyze what you spend time on
Time is a non-renewable resource, but many spend it very
mediocre. Defragment your day like a hard drive on a computer. Think
about how you can redistribute employment during the day to leave more time for
enjoyable activities.
4. Schedule
Manic control of all the events of your life is not necessary,
just rewrite the to-do list in the daily log and stop worrying that you will
forget something. Set adequate deadlines and solve problems as they become
available.
5. Write down ideas
Brilliant thoughts do not always come to mind at the right
time. Write them in a notebook, on your mobile device, anywhere, so as not
to forget. Some ideas will not seem
ingenious after a while, others can Change Your Life.
6. Turn the house into a fortress
Let your apartment become that corner in which you will feel
safe. Surround yourself with cozy things. Take the spare keys from
the obsessive relatives who come without an invitation. Allow yourself to
turn off the phone or at least switch it to silent mode.
7. Save screenshots that make you happy
Create
a folder in which messages will be kept that make you happy and fun. Declarations
of love, praise from superiors, funny correspondence - all this will cheer you
up and restore faith in yourself when something in life goes wrong.
8. Stop arguing
No
need to try to convince your opponent that you are right (unless you get paid
for it, of course). It will take a lot of moral strength and time, and the
interlocutor, most likely, will remain with his opinion.
9. Use the bed for its intended purpose
Do
in bed pleasant things, including sleep , sex, eating pizza to your
favorite series. It’s better to work and read the news elsewhere,
otherwise the bed will no longer be associated with a place of relaxation.
10. Find a way to get away from problems.
Surely
there is something that allows you to escape from difficulties for a while and
at least briefly cheer you up. Favorite movie, viewing funny pictures,
picking up a puzzle, drawing comic book heroes. Make a list of these
things and keep them on hand for an emergency. Use it when you need to
quickly remove psychological stress and forget a little.
11. Fight perfectionism
Not
everything is worth doing perfectly . Some things are easy to
do, others are completely ignored. Set priorities and do not try to
embrace the immensity.
12. Express your feelings more openly.
Of
course, not all experiences are worth sharing. But in some cases this may
be useful. First, people will begin to understand you better. Secondly,
you will realize that you are not alone in your fears and anxieties. Thirdly,
showing emotions, you are psychologically relaxing.
13. Read more books.
Reading
reduces stress levels, expands horizons, allows you to learn something new and
escape from reality into invented worlds in order to at least temporarily
forget about anxieties.
14. Learn to experience breaking up with people
Friendship ends. You
both can remain wonderful people, just nothing else binds you. Release
your buddy and don't blame yourself for anything.
15. More often say yes.
This
is not about agreeing to a walk with a stranger in the dark gateway. But
remember, how many times have you refused something interesting just out of
habit? You are a responsible adult with chronic fatigue, reports and
deadlines, but sometimes it is worth embarking on an adventure in order to feel
alive again.
16. Learn to say no
Being
good for everyone will not work, sometimes you need to be able to refuse even a
request for help if this is an attempt to do someone else's work with your own
hands.
17. Find out more about yourself
Start
a diary or write memoirs, make a family tree for your family, try all the
fruits and find out which one you like best, take the temperament test - get
to know yourself better.
18. Live in the present
Plans
are good, but life is not worth putting aside. It's nice to believe in the
magical “tomorrow”, “from Monday” and “in the new year”, but nothing
outstanding is likely to happen. Live now.